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<channel><title><![CDATA[KENNETH LILLARD - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2026 17:41:47 -0800</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Money, Momentum, and Mindset: A Winter Blueprint for Financial and Personal Growth in 2026]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/money-momentum-and-mindset-a-winter-blueprint-for-financial-and-personal-growth-in-2026]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/money-momentum-and-mindset-a-winter-blueprint-for-financial-and-personal-growth-in-2026#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2026 05:27:34 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/money-momentum-and-mindset-a-winter-blueprint-for-financial-and-personal-growth-in-2026</guid><description><![CDATA[       Winter is not the season for chasing get-rich-quick schemes.It&rsquo;s the season for positioning&mdash;for stepping out of reaction mode and creating systems that support you, not just for this moment, but for the long term.Financial clarity, personal momentum, and a grounded mindset rarely arrive through dramatic change. They emerge step-by-step, through honest review and thoughtful adjustment.If you want 2026 to feel comfortable, steadier, and financially healthier, winter is where tha [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.kennethlillard.com/uploads/5/6/3/4/5634805/adobestock-664207289_orig.jpeg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><br /><strong>Winter is not the season for chasing get-rich-quick schemes.</strong><br />It&rsquo;s the season for <em>positioning</em>&mdash;for stepping out of reaction mode and creating systems that support you, not just for this moment, but for the long term.<br />Financial clarity, personal momentum, and a grounded mindset rarely arrive through dramatic change. They emerge step-by-step, through honest review and thoughtful adjustment.<br />If you want <strong>2026</strong> to feel comfortable, steadier, and financially healthier, winter is where that work begins.<br /><br /><strong>Step One: Know Your Numbers Without Judgment</strong><br />Before improvement comes awareness.<br />Winter offers the perfect time to look clearly at your financial reality&mdash;without shame, blame, or pressure to fix everything at once.<br />Review:<ul><li>Your monthly income</li><li>Fixed expenses</li><li>Variable spending</li><li>Savings or lack thereof</li></ul> This is not about criticism.&nbsp;It&rsquo;s about clarity.&nbsp;Clarity diminishes anxiety.<br /><em>And reduced anxiety improves decision-making.</em></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.kennethlillard.com/uploads/5/6/3/4/5634805/adobestock-895633079_orig.jpeg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><br /><strong>&#8203;Build a Practical Budget That Can Survive Winter<br />&#8203;</strong>A winter budget should <em>reduce stress&mdash;not create it</em>.<br />Instead of tracking every dollar obsessively, focus on a structure that feels steady and sustainable.<br /><strong>A practical budget:</strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;<ul><li>Covers essentials comfortably</li><li>Allows space for enjoyment</li><li>Automates savings when possible</li><li>Reduces daily money decisions</li></ul> Complex systems collapse under pressure.&nbsp;Simple systems endure.&nbsp;<em>Winter rewards predictability.</em><br /><br /><strong>Winter Is for Skill-Building, Not Risky Ventures</strong><br />This is not the season to gamble with your finances.<br />Instead of chasing quick income or dramatic pivots, winter invites you to invest in building&nbsp;<strong>capability</strong>.<br />Consider:<ul><li>Learning or refining a monetizable skill</li><li>Improving an existing income stream</li><li>Strengthening systems you already rely on</li></ul> Growth continues to steadily compound when the pressure to deliver instant results is low.&nbsp;<br /><em>Winter progress is often invisible&mdash;but powerful.</em><br /><br /><strong>Productivity That Preserves Your Energy</strong><br />Winter productivity is about continuing financial growth, but not by exhausting yourself in the process.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br />It&rsquo;s about working&nbsp;<strong>smarter - not harder.</strong><br />Choose:<ul><li>One primary focus</li><li>One supporting habit</li><li>One weekly reflection&nbsp;</li></ul> This keeps momentum going without overwhelming yourself.<br /><em>Progress that feels sustainable is the kind that lasts.</em></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.kennethlillard.com/uploads/5/6/3/4/5634805/adobestock-1857080876_orig.jpeg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><br /><strong>&#8203;Play the Long Game With Confidence</strong><br />Real success is rarely instant or flashy.<br />It looks like:<ul><li>Financial margin</li><li>Emotional steadiness</li><li>Predictable systems</li><li>Energy left at the end of the day</li></ul> Winter teaches patience&mdash;the skill most people skip, and the one that makes everything else work.<br />&#8203;You don&rsquo;t need urgency right now.<br /><em>You need consistency and steadiness.</em><br /><br /><strong>Momentum doesn&rsquo;t disappear in winter</strong>.&nbsp;<br />It changes form.<br />This season asks you to slow your pace, sharpen your awareness, and strengthen the foundations that will quietly support you throughout the year.<br />When spring arrives, progress will feel less like effort&mdash;and more like continuation.<br />Winter isn&rsquo;t holding you back.<br />It&rsquo;s setting you up.<br />&#8203;<em>Build stability now, so more growth comes easier later.</em><em>&nbsp;</em><br /><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Winter 2026: A Season of Calm, Clarity, and Foundation]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/winter-2026-a-season-of-calm-clarity-and-foundation]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/winter-2026-a-season-of-calm-clarity-and-foundation#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2026 04:04:40 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/winter-2026-a-season-of-calm-clarity-and-foundation</guid><description><![CDATA[       Winter is not a pause.It&rsquo;s a preparation.This season is about creating the internal conditions that make a healthy, focused, and successful year ahead possible&mdash;without pressure or urgency.&#8203;The Winter 2026 Series is an invitation to slow down, reset your priorities, and build foundations that last beyond passing emotional impulses.  What You&rsquo;ll Find in the Winter 2026 Series&#8203;&#8203;This seasonal series explores:Consistent, sustainable productivity without stre [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.kennethlillard.com/uploads/5/6/3/4/5634805/adobestock-1317579654_orig.jpeg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong><br />Winter is not a pause.<br /></strong><em>It&rsquo;s a preparation.<br /></em><br />This season is about creating the internal conditions that make a healthy, focused, and successful year ahead possible&mdash;without pressure or urgency.&#8203;<br />The <strong>Winter 2026 Series</strong> is an invitation to <em>slow down, reset your priorities, and build foundations</em> that last beyond passing emotional impulses.</div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong>What You&rsquo;ll Find in the Winter 2026 Series</strong><br />&#8203;&#8203;This seasonal series explores:<ul><li>Consistent, sustainable productivity without stressing yourself out</li><li>Health that respects the season</li><li>Thoughtful planning without pressure</li><li>Personal clarity before outward growth</li></ul> Each post is designed to be read slowly, reflected on, and returned to when needed.</div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;<strong>Winter 2026 Posts<br />&#8203;</strong>&#8203;<strong>&bull; The Quiet Power of Winter</strong><br />How to design a calm, focused, and successful year by using winter intentionally.<br /><strong>&bull; Healthy Without the Hustle</strong><br />A realistic winter reset for your body, mind, and energy&mdash;without burnout.<br /><strong>&bull; Money, Momentum, and Mindset</strong><br />A winter blueprint for financial clarity and personal growth in 2026.<br /><br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.kennethlillard.com/uploads/5/6/3/4/5634805/adobestock-894865768_orig.jpeg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><br /><strong>&#8203;Winter doesn&rsquo;t demand reinvention</strong>.<br /><em>It asks for honesty, patience, and care.</em><br /><br />If you move through this season <em>thoughtfully</em>, the rest of the year will feel less like a struggle&mdash;and more like <em>momentum</em>.<br />The goal of this&nbsp;<strong>Winter 2026 Series</strong> is to provide a positive and calming approach to winter health and growth&mdash;focused on <em>nourishment, movement, and balance,</em> without needless stress or burnout.<br /><br />Hope you'll enjoy it!<br /><br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.kennethlillard.com/uploads/5/6/3/4/5634805/adobestock-458351622_orig.jpeg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Healthy Without the Hustle: A Winter Reset for Your Body, Mind, and Energy]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/healthy-without-the-hustle-a-winter-reset-for-your-body-mind-and-energy]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/healthy-without-the-hustle-a-winter-reset-for-your-body-mind-and-energy#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2026 06:43:17 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/healthy-without-the-hustle-a-winter-reset-for-your-body-mind-and-energy</guid><description><![CDATA[       &#8203;Physical fitness doesn&rsquo;t decline in January because people lack discipline.It often subsides because people demand summer-level intensity from their winter bodies.Cold and shorter winter days change how we feel, move, and recover.Ignoring that reality is very often what creates burnout&mdash;not a lack of motivation.Winter health isn&rsquo;t about transformation.It&rsquo;s about stability.And stability, quietly maintained, becomes strength.  The Winter Health Mindset Shift&#8 [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.kennethlillard.com/uploads/5/6/3/4/5634805/winter-soup-to-keep-you-warm_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><br /><strong>&#8203;Physical fitness doesn&rsquo;t decline in January because people lack discipline</strong>.<br />It often subsides because people demand summer-level intensity from their winter bodies.<br />Cold and shorter winter days change how we feel, move, and recover.<br />Ignoring that reality is very often what creates burnout&mdash;not a lack of motivation.<br />Winter health isn&rsquo;t about transformation.<br />It&rsquo;s about stability.<br /><em>And stability, quietly maintained, becomes strength.</em></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong>The Winter Health Mindset Shift<br />&#8203;</strong>Instead of asking, <em>&ldquo;How do I get in the best shape of my life?&rdquo;</em><br />Ask something more seasonally intelligent:<br /><strong>How do I support my body right now?</strong><br />Winter asks for:<ul><li>Consistency over intensity</li><li>Warmth over restriction</li><li>Recovery over relentless effort</li></ul> <em>When your health goals align with the season, they stop feeling like a struggle.</em></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;<strong>Eat for Warmth, Not Restriction<br />&#8203;</strong>Winter is not the season for aggressive dieting.<br />Your body burns more energy staying warm, regulating mood, and supporting immune function. What it needs now is <em>nourishment&mdash;not punishment.</em><br />Focus on:<ul><li>Warm, cooked meals</li><li>Adequate protein at breakfast</li><li>Fiber-rich vegetables</li><li>Healthy fats that support satiety</li></ul> Soups, stews, roasted vegetables, oatmeal, and herbal teas are not indulgences&mdash;they&rsquo;re intelligent winter choices.<br />Consistency matters more than perfection.</div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;<strong>Move Gently, Move Often<br />&#8203;</strong>You don&rsquo;t need extreme workouts to stay healthy during winter.<br />In fact, pushing too hard often leads to injury, exhaustion, or quitting altogether.<br />Aim for:<ul><li>Daily walking when possible</li><li>Strength training two to three times per week</li><li>Gentle stretching or mobility work</li></ul> Movement should leave you feeling <strong>better than when you started</strong>, not depleted.<br /><em>Winter rewards rhythm, not intensity.</em></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.kennethlillard.com/uploads/5/6/3/4/5634805/a-person-walking-across-a-snow-covered-street_orig.webp" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;<br />&#8203;<strong>Sleep Is Your Winter Superpower</strong><br />If there&rsquo;s one habit worth protecting this season, it&rsquo;s sleep.<br />Winter naturally invites more rest, yet many people fight it with caffeine and late nights. The result is low energy, irritability, and weakened immunity.<br />Support your sleep by:<ul><li>Going to bed at the same time most nights</li><li>Dimming lights in the evening</li><li>Reducing screen exposure before sleep</li></ul> <em>Sleep isn&rsquo;t lost time.<br />It&rsquo;s where recovery, clarity, and resilience are built.</em></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong>Lower the Pressure, Protect Your Mind<br />&#8203;</strong>Winter mental health often suffers not because life is harder&mdash;but because <em>expectations are unrealistic.</em><br />You don&rsquo;t need to:<ul><li>Be everywhere</li><li>Do everything</li><li>Fix everything at once</li></ul> Give yourself permission to move at a more relaxed pace.<br />Less pressure creates more peace of mind.</div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><em>&ldquo;I support my body instead of fighting it.&rdquo;</em></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;<strong>Health is not built through bursts of motivation.</strong><br />It&rsquo;s built through seasons of care.<br />Treat winter as <em>maintenance</em>, not a <em>makeover</em>, and you&rsquo;ll emerge stronger, steadier, and more energized when the year truly opens up.<br /><em>This isn&rsquo;t falling behind.<br />It&rsquo;s laying a foundation.</em></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.kennethlillard.com/uploads/5/6/3/4/5634805/winter-herbal-tea-for-immunity-digestion-calm-astiry-tea_orig.webp" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Quiet Power of Winter: How to Design a Calm, Focused, and Successful 2026]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/january-31st-2026]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/january-31st-2026#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2026 21:58:42 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/january-31st-2026</guid><description><![CDATA[       Winter doesn&rsquo;t ask you to sprint.It asks you to thoughtfully prepare.While the world pushes &ldquo;New Year, New You&rdquo; at full volume, winter offers something far more valuable: space.Space to think clearly.Space to adjust your mindset.Space to design a year that actually aligns with your values and goals&mdash;rather than one you abandon by February.If you want 2026 to be successful, healthy, and genuinely positive, winter is where the real work begins.  Why Winter Is the Smar [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.kennethlillard.com/uploads/5/6/3/4/5634805/warm-miniamalism-interior-natural-light_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong>Winter doesn&rsquo;t ask you to sprint</strong>.<br />It asks you to thoughtfully prepare.<br />While the world pushes <em>&ldquo;New Year, New You&rdquo;</em> at full volume, winter offers something far more valuable: <strong>space</strong>.<br />Space to think clearly.<br />Space to adjust your mindset.<br />Space to design a year that actually aligns with your values and goals&mdash;rather than one you abandon by February.<br />If you want <strong>2026</strong> to be successful, healthy, and genuinely positive<em>, winter is where the real work begins.</em></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong>Why Winter Is the Smartest Time to Build Your Year</strong></div>  <div class="paragraph">Most people treat winter like something to endure.<br />However, many successful people treat winter like a <strong>strategy season</strong>.<br />Winter naturally creates conditions that are hard to access the rest of the year:<ul><li>Fewer social distractions</li><li>Slower mornings and evenings</li><li>More time for reflection</li><li>Less external noise competing for your attention</li></ul> This makes winter the ideal season to clarify priorities, remove needless friction from your life, and design systems that will support you all year round.<br />&#8203;<br />&#8203;Before setting goals, ask a more powerful question:<br /><strong>How do I want 2026 to feel on a daily basis?</strong><br />Calm?<br />&#8203;Grounded?<br />Focused?<br />Productive?<br />Energized?<br />Inspired?<br />Revitalized?<br />Let winter help you answer honestly.</div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.kennethlillard.com/uploads/5/6/3/4/5634805/frozen-window-mood-relaxing_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><em>Winter is where long-term success is often built.</em></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;<strong>Designing a Supportive Daily Structure&nbsp;<br />&#8203;</strong>A winter routine should feel <em>supportive&mdash;not stressful</em>.<br />Instead of overhauling everything, anchor your days with <strong>three steady constants</strong>:<br /><br />1. <strong>A Gentle Morning Start</strong><br />Not a grueling 5 a.m. routine (unless it's absolutely required). Just consistency.<br />Ideas:<ul><li>Wake up at the same time most days</li><li>Drink water before touching your phone</li><li>Spend 5&ndash;10 minutes quietly, journaling, or reading</li></ul> This signals to your brain: <em>We are in control today.</em><br /><br />2. <strong>A Focus Block</strong><br />One uninterrupted block of time (60&ndash;90 minutes) where you do your most important work.<br />No multitasking. No notifications.<br />Just progress.<br /><br />3. <strong>An Evening Wind-Down Routine</strong><br />Protect your <em>sleep</em>&mdash;it&rsquo;s the foundation of everything.<br />Simple habits:<ul><li>Screens off 30&ndash;60 minutes before bed</li><li>Low lighting</li><li>A consistent bedtime</li></ul><br /><strong>Winter Goal-Setting That Actually Works</strong><br />Forget 20 resolutions.<br />Instead, choose:<ul><li><strong>1 health focus</strong></li><li><strong>1 work or income focus</strong></li><li><strong>1 personal growth focus</strong></li></ul> Examples:<ul><li>Health: Walking daily, improving sleep, strength training twice a week</li><li>Work: Mastering&nbsp;a key system you rely on, learning one monetizable skill</li><li>Growth: Listening to inspiring podcasts, journaling weekly</li></ul> <em>Depth beats quantity&mdash;every time.</em><br /><br /><strong>Mental Reset: Letting Go Before You Build<br />&#8203;</strong>Before adding new goals, release what&rsquo;s draining you:<ul><li>Obligations you&rsquo;ve outgrown</li><li>Habits that no longer serve you</li><li>Expectations that aren&rsquo;t yours</li></ul> Write them down. Be honest.<br /><em>Winter is about <strong>clearing the field</strong>.</em><br /><br /><strong>Closing Thought</strong><br />If you let winter do its work, spring will feel effortless.<br />You don&rsquo;t need to force momentum.<br />You need to <em><strong>prepare the ground</strong>.</em><br />2026 doesn&rsquo;t start with noise.<br /><em>It starts with intention.</em></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[CHURCH and SOCIAL MEDIA 2016 - Year in review]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/church-and-social-media-2016-year-in-review]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/church-and-social-media-2016-year-in-review#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2017 05:53:03 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Archive]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/church-and-social-media-2016-year-in-review</guid><description><![CDATA[CHURCH and SOCIAL MEDIA 2016 - Year In Review, Part 1&#8203;CHURCH and SOCIAL MEDIA 2016 - Year In Review, Part 2 [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><a href="https://kennethelillard.wordpress.com/2016/12/20/church-and-social-media-2016-year-in-review-part-1/" target="_blank">CHURCH and SOCIAL MEDIA 2016 - Year In Review, Part 1</a><br /><br />&#8203;<a href="https://kennethelillard.wordpress.com/2016/12/21/church-and-social-media-2016-the-year-in-review-pt-2/" target="_blank">CHURCH and SOCIAL MEDIA 2016 - Year In Review, Part 2</a><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Stopping by king's memorial on a snowy evening - A Winter's tale]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/stopping-by-kings-memorial-on-a-snowy-evening-a-winters-tale]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/stopping-by-kings-memorial-on-a-snowy-evening-a-winters-tale#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2017 09:09:54 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/stopping-by-kings-memorial-on-a-snowy-evening-a-winters-tale</guid><description><![CDATA[STOPPING BY KING&rsquo;S MEMORIAL ON A SNOWY EVENING - A WINTER&rsquo;S TALEAwed.He stood wrapped in overcoat and long scarf, arms crossed, before the monument of the great man.&#8203;Dr. King, with arms crossed, gazed down at him, like a father welcoming his returning son.Both were bathed in the wintry light.The Tidal Basin, a frozen mirror of fire and ice, caught the setting sun nearby.Newly fallen snow had formed a mantel across the great man&rsquo;s shoulders and covered folded granite&nbsp; [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><strong>STOPPING BY KING&rsquo;S MEMORIAL ON A SNOWY EVENING - A WINTER&rsquo;S TALE</strong><br /><br />Awed.<br /><br />He stood wrapped in overcoat and long scarf, arms crossed, before the monument of the great man.<br />&#8203;Dr. King, with arms crossed, gazed down at him, like a father welcoming his returning son.<br />Both were bathed in the wintry light.<br />The Tidal Basin, a frozen mirror of fire and ice, caught the setting sun nearby.<br /><br />Newly fallen snow had formed a mantel across the great man&rsquo;s shoulders and covered folded granite&nbsp;arms.<br />Like some Black Prince, deep in thought, he pondered the towering figure staring back.<br />He&rsquo;d come to pay homage, to show respect.<br />Seeking counsel,&nbsp;wisdom, to pay&nbsp;a debt.<br /><br />A wooded grove, harboring distant secrets, formed a silent backdrop to the snowy scene.<br /><br />One by one, thoughts filled his mind.<br /><br /><em>Whose woods are these? He looked around.<br />The spot where you&rsquo;re standing is hallowed ground.<br />&#8203;There's no greater love than to lay down one's life for one's friend.</em><br /><br /><em>&ldquo;Tell them about the dream, Martin!&rdquo;<br />&#8203;If I can help somebody as&nbsp;I travel along, my living shall not be in vain.</em><br /><em>The dream&rsquo;s the thing. Martin Luther King.</em><br /><br /><em>Winter in America, Lord knows. The darkest evening of the year</em>.<br /><em>Keep pressing. A dream deferred is not a dream denied. </em><br /><em>Ask and it shall be given. Seek and ye shall find. Knock and it shall be opened unto you.&nbsp;</em>&nbsp;<br /><br />&#8203;Wait! Did MLK&nbsp;just&nbsp;move?<br /><br />The statue seemed to&nbsp;turn towards him and dab.<br /><br />&#8203;The shifting ground&nbsp;didn't make a sound.&nbsp;What?<br />King&rsquo;s voice&nbsp;rang out&nbsp;along the Mall,<br />&#8203;"<em>Now, don&rsquo;t forget about the dream.&rdquo; </em><br />A shooting star raced cross the sky.<br /><br />When he&nbsp;turned around, King stood right where he&rsquo;d been before.<br />Towering. Heroic. Majestic.<br />&#8203;He, definitely,&nbsp;didn't need to think twice.<br />The pilgrimage had&nbsp;been&nbsp;well worth the price.<br /><br />&copy; Kenneth Lillard<br /><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[CHURCH AND SOCIAL MEDIA 2015 - YEAR IN REVIEW, PART 2]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/church-and-social-media-2015-year-in-review-part-2]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/church-and-social-media-2015-year-in-review-part-2#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2016 18:07:10 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/church-and-social-media-2015-year-in-review-part-2</guid><description><![CDATA[       Church and Social Media 2015 - Year in Review, Part 2   [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.kennethlillard.com/uploads/5/6/3/4/5634805/megachurch-service_1.png?674" alt="Picture" style="width:674;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><a href="https://kennethelillard.wordpress.com/2015/12/31/church-and-social-media-2015-year-in-review-part-2/" target="_blank">Church and Social Media 2015 - Year in Review, Part 2</a></div>  <div class="paragraph"></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[CHURCH and SOCIAL MEDIA 2015 - YEAR IN REVIEW, Part 1]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/church-and-social-media-2015-year-in-review-part-1]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/church-and-social-media-2015-year-in-review-part-1#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2016 17:43:23 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/church-and-social-media-2015-year-in-review-part-1</guid><description><![CDATA[       Church and Social Media 2015 - Year in Review, Part 1 [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.kennethlillard.com/uploads/5/6/3/4/5634805/social-media-icons-iphone_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title"><a href="https://kennethelillard.wordpress.com/2015/12/29/church-and-social-media-2015-year-in-review-part-1/" target="_blank">Church and Social Media 2015 - Year in Review, Part 1</a></h2>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[EDWARDS FAMILY REUNION MESSAGE]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/edwards-family-reunion-message]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/edwards-family-reunion-message#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2015 18:35:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/edwards-family-reunion-message</guid><description><![CDATA[        EDWARDS FAMILY REUNION MESSAGE                                             By Rev. Dr. Kenneth E. LillardThis message is being shared on the occasion of the&nbsp;celebration of the Edwards Family Reunion held in Portsmouth, VA this Labor Day 2015 Weekend. This Sunday, September 6, 2015, The Edwards Family is fellowshipping at Diamond Grove Baptist Church, Suffolk, VA, where Rev. Dr. Calvin A. Lillard is the Pastor. Text: Ephesians 6:2-3, "Honor your father and mother." This is the first  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:5px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:10px;text-align:left"> <a> <img src="http://www.kennethlillard.com/uploads/5/6/3/4/5634805/2408652.jpg?675" alt="Picture" style="width:675;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span> <strong>EDWARDS FAMILY REUNION MESSAGE</strong><br /><span></span><br /><span></span> </span><font size="4"><font size="4">                                            By Rev. Dr. Kenneth E. Lillard<br /><br /><em>This message is being shared on the occasion of the&nbsp;celebration of the Edwards Family Reunion held in Portsmouth, VA this Labor Day 2015 Weekend. This Sunday, September 6, 2015, The Edwards Family is fellowshipping at Diamond Grove Baptist Church, Suffolk, VA, where Rev. Dr. Calvin A. Lillard is the Pastor.</em><br /><span></span><br /><span></span> </font></font><font size="4"><font size="4"><strong>Text</strong>: <strong><em>Ephesians 6:2-3, "Honor your father and mother." This is the first commandment with a promise: so that it may be well with you, and that you may live long on the earth.</em></strong> <em>~ Apostle Paul</em>. <br /><span></span><br /><span></span> Giving Honor to God, I greet you in the Precious Name of Our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ of Nazareth.<br /><span></span><br /><span></span> Good morning!&nbsp;It is my honor and privilege to share a brief word with you on this Blessed Labor Day Sabbath.<br /><span></span><br /><span></span> First of all, I&nbsp;wish to acknowledge and recognize the Anointed Angel of this House (Diamond Grove Baptist Church), the Mighty Man of God, and one of America's Great Preachers, Rev. Dr. Calvin A. Lillard. <br /><span></span><br /><span></span> Also, I wish to recognize, the wind beneath his wings, First Lady Helen Lillard.<br /><br /><span></span> In addition, I wish to acknowledge, the Diamond Grove Baptist Church officials, officers, and the entire Diamond Grove Baptist Church Family. <br /><span></span><br /><span></span> I wish to recognize all of the distinguised guests, and especially the members of Edwards Family, who are celebrating their First Edwards Family Reunion on this Labor Day Weekend.<br /><span></span><br /><span></span> Finally, I wish to acknowledge and recognize all the Ministers of the Gospel, who labor so diligently in the vineyards to share God's message of Love and Salvation. Amen.<br /><span></span><br /><span></span> On behalf of the Edwards Family, and as an Edwards Family descendant, I wish to sincerely thank Rev. Dr. Calvin Lillard, and the entire Diamond Grove Church Family, for so graciously, opening up your arms, and showing such warm hospitality to the Edwards Family, who&nbsp;fellowship with you, in love and peace, on this wonderful Sabbath Day. We sincerely appreciate you, and truly thank you from the bottom of our hearts. <br /><span></span><br /><span></span> You know, the Edwards Family and the Diamond Grove Baptist Church Family have something very important in common. We are both members of the Family of God!&nbsp;We are both part and parcel of the Body of Christ! So, that makes all of us brothers-and-sisters-in-Christ!&nbsp;Amen.&nbsp;And Psalm 133:1 reminds us, <em>"Behold how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity."</em> Amen!<br /><span></span><br /><span></span> And that brings us to our message:<br /><span></span><br /><span></span> <em><strong>Hebrews 13:2 says, "Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by this, some have entertained angels without knowing."</strong></em>&nbsp; And I believe there are some angels in the house today. Amen. <br /><span></span><br /><span></span> <em><strong>Matthew 10:41 says, "Whoever welcomes a prophet as a prophet will receive a prophet's reward, and whoever receives a righteous person, as a righteous person, will receive a righteous person's reward."</strong></em> So, additional heavenly blessings are, definitely, in store for the Diamond Grove Baptist Church Family, since we know the LORD is already blessing you, continually. <br /><br /><span></span> I just stopped by to share with you three (3) brief points on the importance of family. I&nbsp;promise I won't keep you&nbsp;long!&nbsp;<br /><span></span><br /><span></span> <strong><em>1) Exodus 20:12 says, "Honor they father and mother that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD Thy God giveth thee." <br /><span></span><br /><span></span> </em></strong>And as the Apostle Paul reminds us in Ephesians 6:2-3, <em>this is the first commandment with a promise</em>. Your days will be long upon the land which the LORD&nbsp;Your God has given you. And God does not break His promises. Tell your neighbor, "Neighbor, O Neighbor, God does not break His promises!" Amen.<br /><span></span><br /><span></span> If God said it, that settles it. And you can take that to the bank, saints! When a family honors it's parents and it's forefathers, especially like the Edwards Family is doing today, know that there is definitely a blessing with your name on it, waiting for you. I declare and decree many blessings upon you, financial blessings, healing blessings, blessings on your children, homes, families, and businesses, and most importantly, spirtual blessings. In the Blessed Name of our LORD and Savior, Jesus Christ I pray. Amen! <br /><span></span><br /><span></span> <em><strong>2) A family that prays together stays together!</strong></em> Think about that for a moment. Some of us are, only, here because of grandmothers' prayers sent heavenward late in the midnight hour. The Bible says that "<strong><em>The effectual, fervent prayer of the righteous availeth much." ~ James 5:16.</em></strong> So, Family, let us continue to pray, one for another. Pray for health, pray for wisdom, pray for salvation, pray for those caught up in conflicts,&nbsp;pray for&nbsp;those going through trials and tribulations, and pray for all of those who wished to be here today but could not due to circumstances beyond their control. Pray that the LORD would smile upon them today, touch&nbsp;them with His favor, and grant them deliverance&nbsp;in&nbsp;Mighty Name of Jesus Christ. Amen!&nbsp;<br /><span></span><br /><span></span> My beloved mother, Rev. Dr. Rosetta Lillard, who was John and Molly Edward's granddaughter, and a mighty Woman of God, often told me that her mother, Georgia Edwards, who, herself, was a mighty prayer warrior, prayed that all of her children would be saved. So, Family, let us pray for all of those who do not know the LORD in the forgiveness of their sins that they might be saved. For we don't want any to perish. Let no one&nbsp;be left outside of God's Ark of Safety. Amen!<br /><span></span><br /><span></span> #3) Finally, the Apostle Paul instructs us in <strong><em>1 Thessalonians 5:11, "Therefore, encourage one another, and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."  </em></strong>So, let us support and encourage one another. Extend a hand of assistance to your brother-and-sister in Christ. Forgive one another, as God has forgiven you. The Bible says, <strong><em>"God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners Jesus died for us." ~ Romans 5:8.  Amen!</em></strong><br /><span></span><br /><span></span> Family, God has a purpose and a bright future for your life. The Prophet Jeremiah tells us, <strong><em>"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans to prosper you, and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." ~ Jeremiah 29:11</em></strong>. <br /><span></span><br /><span></span> So, go in <strong><em>love</em></strong>, and <strong><em>peace</em></strong>, and <strong><em>joy</em></strong>, Family, <em>for a truly bright future awaits you</em>!<br /><br />May God Continue to Bless You Richly!<br /><span></span><br /><span></span> Let the church say <strong>Amen!</strong><br /><span></span><br /><span></span> <em>  &nbsp;<br /><span></span><br /><span></span></em></font></font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[LOVE CONQUERS HATE IN CHARLESTON]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/love-conquers-hate-in-charleston]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/love-conquers-hate-in-charleston#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2015 16:33:56 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.kennethlillard.com/blog/love-conquers-hate-in-charleston</guid><description><![CDATA[       What the enemy intended for evil, God will turn it around for your good. ~ Genesis 50:20On Wednesday night, June 17th, a 21 year-old white gunman brutally gunned down nine (9) African American church goers at a Bible Study at the historic Emanuel A.M.E. Church in Charleston, S.C. Investigators&nbsp; labeled it a hate crime.The entire nation was totally shocked and repelled by this senseless, horrific massacre! The church goers had welcomed the&nbsp;stranger, who&rsquo;d walked into their  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.kennethlillard.com/uploads/5/6/3/4/5634805/674199.jpg?388" alt="Picture" style="width:388;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><em>What the enemy intended for evil, God will turn it around for your good. ~ Genesis <a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis+50%3A20&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank"><u><font color="#0066cc">50:20</font></u></a></em><br /><br />On Wednesday night, June 17th, a 21 year-old white gunman <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2015/06/18/us/church-attacked-in-charleston-south-carolina.html?_r=0" target="_blank"><u><font color="#0066cc">brutally gunned down</font></u></a> nine (9) African American church goers at a Bible Study at the historic Emanuel A.M.E. Church in Charleston, S.C. Investigators&nbsp; labeled it a hate crime.<br /><br />The entire nation was totally shocked and repelled by this senseless, horrific massacre! The church goers had welcomed the&nbsp;stranger, who&rsquo;d walked into their Wednesday night Bible Study, with opened arms. They had no idea that he would, very shortly,&nbsp;kill them with a hidden firearm. Nine loving Christians were martyred while sharing Jesus&rsquo; Gospel of love and redemption with an&nbsp;unknown stranger. (The names of these nine Christian martyrs are included at the end of this article.)<br /><br />Amazingly, many of the relatives of those who were killed <a href="http://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-33206084" target="_blank"><u><font color="#0066cc">forgave</font></u></a> the confessed murderer in a court proceeding. One relative affirmed, in her&nbsp;statement of forgiveness, &ldquo;Hate won&rsquo;t win.&rdquo; What an inspiring message! Those relatives set a&nbsp;monumentally&nbsp;high standard of compassion and forgiveness that, quite frankly,&nbsp;not many of us could, conceivably, hope to&nbsp;attain. It is this, almost impossibly high, standard that was set by the crucified Christ who, from the cross,&nbsp;prayed&nbsp;concerning his executioners, <em>&ldquo;Father, forgive them for they know not what they do.&rdquo; ~ <a href="http://biblehub.com/luke/23-34.htm" target="_blank"><u><font color="#0066cc">Luke 23:34</font></u></a></em><br /><br />The question immediately arises, &ldquo;What would possibly compel one human being to&nbsp;gun down&nbsp;nine other human beings who had shown him nothing but love and kindness?&rdquo; According to investigators, the confessed killer stated that he wanted, by his actions,&nbsp;to <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/WNT/video/sc-massacre-investigation-friends-suspect-dylann-roof-wanted-31903881" target="_blank"><u><font color="#0066cc">start a race war</font></u></a> in America. He intended to&nbsp;ignite a national conflagration of hatred, violence, and mass killings.<br /><br />However, the Bible says, <em>What the enemy intended for evil, God will turn it around for your good. ~ <a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis+50%3A20&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank"><u><font color="#0066cc">Genesis 50:20</font></u></a></em>. Rather than being rent by violence, and greater racial divisions, Charleston, SC&nbsp;has, instead, <a href="http://www.nbcnews.com/nightly-news/video/charleston-comes-together-in-stirring-show-of-unity-469621827911" target="_blank"><u><font color="#0066cc">chosen to embrace peace and love</font></u></a>, not violence and hatred. Miraculously, the City of Charleston&nbsp;has&nbsp;begun the&nbsp;difficult process of coming together in worship, and solidarity, across racial,&nbsp;ethnic,&nbsp;political, and religious&nbsp;lines!<br /><br />In the wake of the Massacre at Mother Emanuel Church, and with the spotlight of the nation, and the world, firmly fixed on South Carolina, the Governor stepped forward and called for the Confederate&nbsp;battle flag, long a symbol of division and bigotry, to be taken down from&nbsp;South Carolina&rsquo;s&nbsp;state capitol grounds, and put in a museum. Amen to that!<br /><br />What the Charleston gunman intended for evil is, indeed,&nbsp;beginning to be&nbsp;turned around for&nbsp;good!&nbsp;The gunman&rsquo;s&nbsp;bloody and horrific act of&nbsp;despicable evil&nbsp;is, now,&nbsp;ironically, bringing together people of good will, of all backgrounds, colors, races, and&nbsp;creeds&nbsp;for the greater good of the community as a whole.&nbsp;Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.&nbsp;famously stated, &ldquo;Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.&rdquo; Love is beginning to drive&nbsp;hatred out of Charleston.<br /><br />Make no mistake,&nbsp;Charleston&rsquo;s problems, racial and otherwise,&nbsp;are&nbsp;far from&nbsp;over.&nbsp;And the same can be said&nbsp;of South Carolina, and of&nbsp;America.&nbsp;There is, definitely,&nbsp;still a long way to go to achieve an inclusive society that reflects the ideals of freedom, justice, and equality for all.&nbsp;However, Charleston,&nbsp;for the moment, appears to be&nbsp;heading in the right direction, and perhaps there are some lessons of love that&nbsp;we can learn from her journey along the way.<br /><br />The nine red roses at the top of this article are dedicated to the memory of the following nine Christian martyrs&nbsp;felled&nbsp;at&nbsp;Emanuel A.M.E. Church, Charleston, SC&nbsp;on June 17, 2015:<br /><br /><ul><li><em><strong>The Honorable Clementa Pinckney</strong></em>, 41, <em>South Carolina State Senator</em>, and <em>Pastor of Emanuel A.M.E. Church</em>, who lent his booming voice to those whose voices often went unheard.</li><li><em><strong>Cynthia Hurd</strong></em>, 54, a <em>Library Manager</em>, whose life was dedicated to the love of children, books, and her church.</li><li><em><strong>Susie Jackson</strong></em>, 87,&nbsp;a <em>Longtime Emanuel A.M.E. Church Member</em>,&nbsp;and <em>Mother Figure</em> to generations of her family, as well as, to&nbsp;many of her Mother Emanuel A.M.E. Church family.</li><li><em><strong>Ethel Lance</strong></em>, 70, <em>Employee of Emanuel A.M.E. Church</em> for 30 years, who loved her church and its members.</li><li><em><strong>Rev. DePayne Middleton Doctor</strong></em>, 49, <em>Admissions Counselor at Southern Wesleyan University</em>, whose angelic voice could heal aching hearts.</li><li><em><strong>Tywanza Sanders</strong></em>, 26, <em>Poet</em>, and <em>Aspiring Entrepreneur</em>, who recently earned a Business Administration Degree from Allen University.</li><li><strong><em>Rev. Daniel L. Simmons, Sr.,</em> </strong>74, <em>Retired Pastor</em>, who served as a model of endurance and service to God.</li><li><em><strong>Rev. Sharonda Singleton</strong></em>, 45, a <em>Pastor</em>, and <em>Track Coach at Goose Creek High School</em>,&nbsp;a dedicated Minister of the Gospel, and inspirational coach, both, on the track and off.</li><li><em><strong>Myra Thompson</strong></em>, 59,&nbsp;A<em> Builder of Faith</em>, who worked diligently to restore her beloved church&rsquo;s property to&nbsp;its full beauty.</li></ul>May God wrap his arms of love and comfort around the families, loved-ones, and friends of these saints of God, and grant them His peace.<br /><br />Please feel free to share your thoughts on the events in Charleston, SC in the comments below.<br /><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>